penkitten
Master Don Juan
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if anyone is bored, come chat with giovanni, redpill, desdinova and me
if anyone is bored, come chat with giovanni, redpill, desdinova and me
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
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no offense, i've reached my chating fill or exceeding -- my tank capacity today and yesterday w/ trying to do sarging hehe
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats ok maybe next time 
penkitten
Master Don Juan
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Whoever enters this make sure to leave both windows (the sign-on and the room) open with this or they'll both close. FYI.penkitten said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KneghtRyder
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as an aside though it would be cool to chat with you though penkitten sometime peace
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That was cool. I recommend the chat site.
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Bump. I'm hanging out in the chat room if anyone wants to chill.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why not schedule a date and a time so we can plan on stopping by?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats a wonderful suggestion.Francisco d'Anconia said:
when can you make it?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Early evening (about 7pm CST) either Sunday or Tuesday.penkitten said:
Bad_Lil'Pixie
Senior Don Juan
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Should I bring something? Chips, beer, cigars, raisin free oatmeal cookies?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I actually like the raisins...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we will be on vacation next week, so i wont be able to attend. you can still access chat without me
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.