penkitten
Master Don Juan
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if anyone is bored, come chat with giovanni, redpill, desdinova and me
if anyone is bored, come chat with giovanni, redpill, desdinova and me
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
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no offense, i've reached my chating fill or exceeding -- my tank capacity today and yesterday w/ trying to do sarging hehe
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats ok maybe next time 
penkitten
Master Don Juan
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Whoever enters this make sure to leave both windows (the sign-on and the room) open with this or they'll both close. FYI.penkitten said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
KneghtRyder
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as an aside though it would be cool to chat with you though penkitten sometime peace
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That was cool. I recommend the chat site.
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Bump. I'm hanging out in the chat room if anyone wants to chill.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why not schedule a date and a time so we can plan on stopping by?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats a wonderful suggestion.Francisco d'Anconia said:
when can you make it?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Early evening (about 7pm CST) either Sunday or Tuesday.penkitten said:
Bad_Lil'Pixie
Senior Don Juan
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Should I bring something? Chips, beer, cigars, raisin free oatmeal cookies?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I actually like the raisins...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we will be on vacation next week, so i wont be able to attend. you can still access chat without me
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.