penkitten
Master Don Juan
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if anyone is bored, come chat with giovanni, redpill, desdinova and me
if anyone is bored, come chat with giovanni, redpill, desdinova and me
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
KneghtRyder
Senior Don Juan
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no offense, i've reached my chating fill or exceeding -- my tank capacity today and yesterday w/ trying to do sarging hehe
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats ok maybe next time 
penkitten
Master Don Juan
RedPill
Master Don Juan
Whoever enters this make sure to leave both windows (the sign-on and the room) open with this or they'll both close. FYI.penkitten said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
KneghtRyder
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as an aside though it would be cool to chat with you though penkitten sometime peace
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That was cool. I recommend the chat site.
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Bump. I'm hanging out in the chat room if anyone wants to chill.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Why not schedule a date and a time so we can plan on stopping by?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats a wonderful suggestion.Francisco d'Anconia said:
when can you make it?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Early evening (about 7pm CST) either Sunday or Tuesday.penkitten said:
Bad_Lil'Pixie
Senior Don Juan
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Should I bring something? Chips, beer, cigars, raisin free oatmeal cookies?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
I actually like the raisins...
penkitten
Master Don Juan
we will be on vacation next week, so i wont be able to attend. you can still access chat without me
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.