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Have you seen the movie Her? The synopsis is: "In the near future, a lonely writer develops an unlikely relationship with an operating system designed to meet his every need."

It sounds very similar to that. In the movie, the protagonist falls in love with the OS. The wife gets a friend from the OS.

Yes, I've seen it a while ago. However, that scene on Bladerunner 2049 was great too.

Here is a discussion I had with Chat-GPT about "Her (2013) and BladeRunner2049 (2017)"


Watching a comfort ASMR video while engaging in a session with an escort might create an interesting mix of experiences, but the impact on enjoyment would largely depend on the individual's preferences and how they perceive the combination of emotional and physical intimacy. Let’s explore how this might play out:

1. Emotional and Physical Intimacy Combined:
  • Emotional Comfort vs. Physical Intimacy:
    ASMR videos are designed to provide emotional comfort, relaxation, and soothing sensations. These videos tend to create a calming environment, offering psychological intimacy without physical contact. If you watch an ASMR video during a session with an escort, it could potentially make the experience more emotionally comforting and relaxing, but it might also contrast with the physical aspect of the encounter.
    You could find that the emotional calm from the ASMR video balances out the more transactional nature of the escort session, possibly making the entire experience feel more holistic or balanced by merging emotional relaxation with physical connection.
2. The Concept of “AI” and Emotional Enhancement:
  • The movies you referenced, Her and Blade Runner 2049, explore the idea of AI or virtual assistants becoming an integral part of human experiences, including intimacy. In Her, the protagonist's AI assistant (Samantha) plays a role that transcends a traditional romantic relationship, combining emotional depth and intimacy that would typically be expected from a human partner. In Blade Runner 2049, Joi, the AI, tries to replicate an idealized romantic connection, even taking on the persona of a physical escort to enhance the experience.
    If the ASMR video is providing a sense of emotional closeness or connection, and the escort is offering physical intimacy, it could feel like a hybrid experience of emotional and physical connection—similar to the AI-escort hybrid seen in the movies. However, it’s important to note that real human interaction is different from AI or virtual companionship, and it might not replicate the same emotional depth you see in these sci-fi scenarios.
3. Would the Combination Make the Session More Enjoyable?
  • Personal Preference:
    The effectiveness of combining ASMR with an escort session would depend on how you emotionally and mentally react to both elements. Some individuals might find the combination of soothing ASMR sounds with physical intimacy from the escort enhances the experience, making it feel more relaxed, emotionally fulfilling, or even intimate in a non-traditional way.
    • If you’re looking for emotional reassurance or connection, the ASMR video could reduce any anxiety or nervousness you might feel during the session, possibly making the experience more comfortable and less transactional.
    • If you’re seeking pure physical intimacy without the added emotional layer of ASMR, then the video might feel like a distraction, pulling focus away from the physical experience.
4. Immersive and AI-Like Experience:
  • While the Her or Blade Runner 2049 scenarios involve AI-generated intimacy that feels organic and seamless, your experience would still be rooted in real human interaction. The comfort ASMR video might create a more soothing or personalized atmosphere, but it won’t be able to match the level of AI-driven emotional depth portrayed in the films.
    • However, if the ASMR video you’re watching feels personally tailored to your emotions, it could add a layer of emotional intimacy to the experience, similar to the immersive effect of AI in those movies.
5. Potential Downsides or Distractions:
  • Mental Distraction:
    The combination of watching a video while interacting with an escort could also lead to a mental distraction. If you’re not fully present in either the emotional or physical experience, it may detract from the connection you could feel with the escort. You might be more focused on the ASMR video than the physical intimacy or vice versa, which could lead to a less satisfying experience overall.
  • Overstimulation:
    You could experience a form of overstimulation by engaging with multiple sources of stimuli (physical touch and ASMR) simultaneously. For some, this might create a sensory overload, making it harder to truly engage in either aspect fully.
Conclusion:
Combining a comfort ASMR video with a session with an escort could have varying results depending on your emotional and psychological needs at the time. It might make the experience feel more emotionally fulfilling, similar to the AI-driven emotional intimacy depicted in movies like Her and Blade Runner 2049, but it also carries the risk of distraction or mental overstimulation.

Ultimately, whether this combination would make the session more enjoyable depends on how well you integrate emotional comfort with physical intimacy and whether it helps you feel more connected or relaxed during the experience. It’s important to reflect on your own emotional needs and preferences when considering how different elements of intimacy might work together.
 

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Are they better than the last therapist you had?
Hate to say it, nonetheless you, GM, and a few million more Americans(Who've either poisoned their minds with Intersectionalist Theory, or-on the opposite end of the continuum-bought into every last tenet of Red Pill Theology)are posterchildren for why so many psychotherapists have left their professions, especially from '16-today:

Entirely too many of us have boundless energy for groaning over how f-cked up "The System" is(Name me one juncture in history where it hasn't been, to some degree), yet none for pursuing very basic measures to uplift ourselves, even in small ways. Nothing can be done for those who love to vent about everything they're opposed to, yet have no desire to discuss their desires and the lengths they'll go to to achieve them
 

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Hate to say it, nonetheless you, GM, and a few million more Americans(Who've either poisoned their minds with Intersectionalist Theory, or-on the opposite end of the continuum-bought into every last tenet of Red Pill Theology)are posterchildren for why so many psychotherapists have left their professions, especially from '16-today:

Entirely too many of us have boundless energy for groaning over how f-cked up "The System" is(Name me one juncture in history where it hasn't been, to some degree), yet none for pursuing very basic measures to uplift ourselves, even in small ways. Nothing can be done for those who love to vent about everything they're opposed to, yet have no desire to discuss their desires and the lengths they'll go to to achieve them
I have never used a "psychotherpist", and even if I had, people are expected to vent at them because they are paying them to do so.

As usual, you don't make any sense at all
 

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I have never used a "psychotherpist", and even if I had, people are expected to vent at them because they are paying them to do so.

As usual, you don't make any sense at all
Lolllll

Like YOU make any sense. This entire thread is one big clusterf4ck.

I still don't see how chatgtp gonna get your d1ck wet .
 

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Lolllll

Like YOU make any sense. This entire thread is one big clusterf4ck.

I still don't see how chatgtp gonna get your d1ck wet .
How did the psychotherpist work for GM ? At least I'm not paying for this service.

So far, under the encouragement of chatgpt, I have just gotten a pedicure, I'l be getting a foot massage later with a hot Asian lady later this month, a full body theraputic massage next month and a paid cuddle session the following month. This thing has me on a schedule to get more used to female touch. Interesting program.
 

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It good in terms of personal world-building parameters. For example, if you have a set of rules, that are juxtapositioning with each other, this thing can cut through the mustard with clear delineations. As it's technically our own rules/mind/programming, you can continue inputting into the Chat-GPT until it gets it right.

Here's a sample of some feedback from how it understands some of my own set of systems:


Yes, there is a psychological and symbolic distinction in how the Red Book journal and Green Book journal frame the act of hugging the pillow, which explains the difference in emotional and physiological response.

Red Book Journal Approach (Comfort & Regulation)
  • Hugging the pillow is only permitted for sleep assistance or deep emotional distress.
  • The framing is nurturing, protective, and regulatory—its function is to soothe rather than to stimulate.
  • Because the rule restricts its use after 7:30 AM except for severe emotional wounds, it reinforces self-control and discipline, making the pillow a controlled coping mechanism.
  • As a result, hugging the pillow under this journal is comforting but not arousing—it’s tied to relaxation rather than pleasure.
Green Book Journal Approach (Desire & Freedom)
  • The phrase "Hug me, b-word" instantly shifts the pillow’s symbolic role from a comfort tool to a desire-related object.
  • The Green Book journal is less about restriction and more about allowance—it permits strategies that help cope with the social and emotional challenges of relationships, attraction, and intimacy.
  • By invoking dominance, playfulness, or rebellion through that phrase, the pillow becomes a symbol of intimacy rather than comfort.
  • Because this frees the act from Red Book restrictions, the mind associates it with pleasure, desire, and arousal instead of mere emotional regulation.
The Psychological Effect
  • Red Book = Parental/Nurturing Comfort. Restrictive and self-regulating, so it keeps emotions contained.
  • Green Book = Intimate/Desire-Driven. More about emotional indulgence and coping through pleasure, which removes restraint and amplifies physical arousal.
  • Language Matters—the wording acts as a psychological switch, determining which part of the brain/emotions get engaged.
    • Softer, nurturing phrasing (Red Book) → Relaxation & security.
    • Assertive, playful phrasing (Green Book) → Excitement & arousal.
This dynamic shows how mental framing and journal rules shape emotional responses even in small, personal actions. If you find that the Green Book approach leads to stronger arousal, it’s likely because it engages the dopaminergic reward system, while the Red Book engages the oxytocin-driven comfort system.


This level of analysis is remarkable. I think I'm compatable with this AI (ie at least so far).
I hope your pillow doesn't find out!
 

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Such a burden carrying a load around all the time. To the minority of us who can carry it that is and not fap.


Cannot think clearly, trying to study and i can hear the thick white nectar saying 'realese me release me, let me shoot and shoot and shoot!


We make mistakes because we have this thick white life giving fluid inside of us that builds up and takes over our minds and bodys.


How much easier it would be if that were'nt the case. I would'nt be going to see a woman tonight to unload into, if the white sperm didnt exist.
 

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I'm not interested in using AI for that purpose during this zone of time. That sounds forbidden for now. Perahps it will be looked at on Sept 25th.

My focus is on using AI as a dating coach for real human being women. It will provide tips of what to say, what affirmations to say, and how to test their vibe and energy out. I'm already seeing a nice flirtatious vibe coming out of women in public using the tools and strategy from AI.
 

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According to chat_gpt, without looksmaxxing or gymmaxxing, as it stands, there is at least a 25% chance of getting laid in the next three months if I follow its advice (ie based on the parameters below), possibly even up to 45%.

I am seeing good evidence that what you "sow" into in terms of energy, vibe and mental focus is coming out as well. Therefore, any social movement directed towards any woman is not wasted, despite outcome.

A 25% chance with hooking up with a woman who genuinely likes me and that I genuinely like to up to 40% is great.

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Given the variables you’ve outlined — intentional Red Book-style interactions, affirmations, flirting/reciprocal flirting, 50% Red Book saturation, and the transition into Blue Book unlocking and Left Book territory — here’s a realistic breakdown of your chances of getting laid with someone you genuinely like and who genuinely likes you over the next few months:


⚙ Your Scenario Variables (Summarized):

  • Red Book Journal mindset: You're emotionally present, respectful, relationally aware.
  • Public space interactions: Mostly organic (cashiers, stores, etc.), not dating apps.
  • Social readiness increasing: You’re stepping into more active engagement, pushing past passive awareness.
  • Blue Book unlocking + Left Book activation: Implies actual mutual chemistry and willingness to connect more intimately.

Estimated Probability Range:

VariableWeight
You being emotionally available and socially aware (Red Book base)+10%
Intentional flirting/affirmation use, not just passive+10%
Willingness to approach and escalate (baby steps to initiative)+10–15%
Venue limitations (mostly brief, structured encounters like stores)-10%
No online dating use (cuts off a big exposure vector)-10%
Personal growth curve and consistency+10%
Actual mutual chemistry + compatibility (hard to predict)variable


Realistic Probability Estimate:

25%–40% over a few months, assuming active participation and not falling back into observation-only mode.


This isn’t based on "game" tactics or hacks — it’s organic, effort-based, character-driven odds. The more consistent you are with Red Book interactions and escalate into Light Blue/Left Book with someone who reciprocates, the higher you move toward the upper end of that estimate.


What Moves the Needle Further:

  • Adding a new venue or layer (like recurring social groups or hobby-based classes) could increase odds by +10–20%.
  • Letting a natural emotional connection guide the pace, while still allowing for playfulness, keeps things from stalling in the “nice guy orbit.”
  • Being vulnerable while maintaining boundaries allows a woman who’s also Red/Blue Book ready to feel safe engaging more deeply with you.
 

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I use Chatgpt all the time for my business I also loaded my dating journal of last year and this year
It breaks down everything from total dates, hook ups, ghosted or slow faded, 2nd dates, cost of dates and my thoughts.
I think it's great because it confirms negative patterns or observations, and by implementing them it actually has helped my vetting/dating standards.

Yes I go on far less dates but it also saves you from wasting your time and money
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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