"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chasing a girl, got the girl, feel indifferent.

Anpha

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What does it mean, if you just had sex with a girl you’ve been chasing for two months, but you don’t feel any chemistry coming from her? I adored this girl and when I had the opportunity to lay her this weekend, it felt as if it was only one way. This was her first time, but it still felt as if my feelings weren’t reciprocated.


She was perceptive to sex and had no experience whatsoever, so I guided her and taught her how to kiss/oral. The thing is, I feel as if she didn’t put any emotion into the act, feel anything. I would've thought 2 months of seeing someone, and them wanting you would warrant some pretty insane sex, or atleast an attempt of it.


The girl is less interested in me than I am to her, but I managed to snag her and we are a couple now. I’m just confused, I act quite detached to her and she does the same. I am intrigued by the relationship and feel as if this is somewhat like a plate? Should i invest more into this? or leave it as it is?


It feels like weird behaviour, like i'm being used here and she's giving me sex. I don’t see this relationship going far, as I usually see them as two equals but it feels like she’s expecting more of me. She has the power in the relationship, and I've honestly thought that she was a DJ while i was dating her, but she has no experience. I'm dumbfounded. Please share your opinions.

Notes:
- split every bill, payment
- she's very independent, and doesn't seem to rely on other people
- see's power as very important, doesn't like to be outspoken/argued, high ego, 21.
- comes from very rich family
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrgoodstuff

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Allow her to explore on you, encourage her too. Probably while you are coaching her she is "thinking" it through and it comes off like you say, mechanical, etc. Kiss her in the mouth.
 

daddymonsterpoodle

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Next.. She wanted a boyfriend to have sex with. You were there.

Move on.
 

wifehunter

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