"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Chasing a girl, got the girl, feel indifferent.

Anpha

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 7, 2016
Messages
33
Reaction score
11
Age
31
What does it mean, if you just had sex with a girl you’ve been chasing for two months, but you don’t feel any chemistry coming from her? I adored this girl and when I had the opportunity to lay her this weekend, it felt as if it was only one way. This was her first time, but it still felt as if my feelings weren’t reciprocated.


She was perceptive to sex and had no experience whatsoever, so I guided her and taught her how to kiss/oral. The thing is, I feel as if she didn’t put any emotion into the act, feel anything. I would've thought 2 months of seeing someone, and them wanting you would warrant some pretty insane sex, or atleast an attempt of it.


The girl is less interested in me than I am to her, but I managed to snag her and we are a couple now. I’m just confused, I act quite detached to her and she does the same. I am intrigued by the relationship and feel as if this is somewhat like a plate? Should i invest more into this? or leave it as it is?


It feels like weird behaviour, like i'm being used here and she's giving me sex. I don’t see this relationship going far, as I usually see them as two equals but it feels like she’s expecting more of me. She has the power in the relationship, and I've honestly thought that she was a DJ while i was dating her, but she has no experience. I'm dumbfounded. Please share your opinions.

Notes:
- split every bill, payment
- she's very independent, and doesn't seem to rely on other people
- see's power as very important, doesn't like to be outspoken/argued, high ego, 21.
- comes from very rich family
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

mrgoodstuff

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 27, 2015
Messages
17,586
Reaction score
11,948
Location
DFW, TX
Allow her to explore on you, encourage her too. Probably while you are coaching her she is "thinking" it through and it comes off like you say, mechanical, etc. Kiss her in the mouth.
 

daddymonsterpoodle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2015
Messages
707
Reaction score
428
Age
56
Next.. She wanted a boyfriend to have sex with. You were there.

Move on.
 

wifehunter

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 6, 2015
Messages
5,145
Reaction score
3,302
Age
52
Location
Hoe County, California
Pass
 
Top