"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chase girl just out of relationship?

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wow i always get the bad ones don't i. so this chick just told me she got out of a two year relationship recently and she's not over it. she's ALWAYS messaging me and whinging that i don't pay enough attention etc. i told her to meet but shes always saying i gotta get my head straight first. so anyway im trying to just meet other girls to get my mind off this one.

do these things ever happen?

do they always turn out bad if you hook up with girls just out a relationship?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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actually nevermind. i just realised i am seeing someone who said the same things... and we have been fuking for like two months. i can't believe i even forgot that.
 

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hook up with her for an easy rebound (youll be her rebound) ... then boot her...
she sounds like a nice lil' whinger dont she!
did she get dumped by the guy, that may be why she is a bit mental at the moment... if she did get dumped she will be looking for validation and so possibly easier...

its probably better for you to find girls who are sane and not just out of RL's! but you know that!:cool:
 

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You also have to understand that since she got dumped, there's the risk that her ex boyfriend will come back around, and she'll go back to him the moment he says, "I made a mistake."
 
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