Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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chase girl just out of relationship?

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wow i always get the bad ones don't i. so this chick just told me she got out of a two year relationship recently and she's not over it. she's ALWAYS messaging me and whinging that i don't pay enough attention etc. i told her to meet but shes always saying i gotta get my head straight first. so anyway im trying to just meet other girls to get my mind off this one.

do these things ever happen?

do they always turn out bad if you hook up with girls just out a relationship?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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actually nevermind. i just realised i am seeing someone who said the same things... and we have been fuking for like two months. i can't believe i even forgot that.
 

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hook up with her for an easy rebound (youll be her rebound) ... then boot her...
she sounds like a nice lil' whinger dont she!
did she get dumped by the guy, that may be why she is a bit mental at the moment... if she did get dumped she will be looking for validation and so possibly easier...

its probably better for you to find girls who are sane and not just out of RL's! but you know that!:cool:
 

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You also have to understand that since she got dumped, there's the risk that her ex boyfriend will come back around, and she'll go back to him the moment he says, "I made a mistake."
 
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