Charm + Indifference = Success

[Knight of Roses]

So during my years, one thing I have always struggled with is maintaining the fine balance between showing too little attention/interest and showing too much. Too much kills her attraction while too little doesn't build enough.

Im not saying Im a master, I still make plenty of mistakes, but recently I've been on a relatively good roll/success. One thing I've been employing is using a heavier charm/seductive undertone when Im in the presence of these women.

Read Robert Greene's "Art of Seduction". Select a few tactics and employ them. I lay the interest on heavily when Im in their presence and occasionally through text messaging. However, I also pull away interest and attention rather rapidly. Send a message and don't respond to their response for several hours or even days.

It's this hot and cold, mixed signals which tends to work relatively well.

Just some caveats based on my experience, feel free to chime in if you agree or disagree.

 

[zinc4]

Hot cold push pull....is very important to master it

 

[Hamurabimbi]

I know ‘indifference ‘ has long been a staple. But I’ve found, showing interest and appreciating her charms has worked well for me.

 

[DonJuanjr]

One thing I've been employing is using a heavier charm/seductive undertone when Im in the presence of these women.

I lay the interest on heavily when Im in their presence and occasionally through text messaging.

Can you expand more on what you're doing?