CHALENGE GUY
Senior Don Juan
Charm is very simple. It boils down to making another person feel better about themselves when they are in your company. There is nothing more flattering or rare than the undivided attention of another.
It is more important to be interested than interesting.
Here’s a few tips I found in a self growth newletter:
* Be alert for any chance to praise another.
* Be fun to be with.
* Be genuinely concerned about what's going on in the life of the other.
* Suspend your agenda in the interest of the other's.
* Encourage and affirm your friend at every opportunity.
* Listen twice as much as you talk.
* Give genuine compliments, frequently.
* Accept the person as they are and not as you want them to be.
* Ask questions and listen to their answers. There is a difference between prying and being interested.
* Be enthusiastic.
* Be a friend without conditions.
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Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.
- Roosevelt
Heretics shall perish. Please read the Bible. It is is a whole vast world of wisdom, beauty, and moral truth.
THE DJ BIBLE
[This message has been edited by CHALENGE GUY (edited 07-09-2001).]
It is more important to be interested than interesting.
Here’s a few tips I found in a self growth newletter:
* Be alert for any chance to praise another.
* Be fun to be with.
* Be genuinely concerned about what's going on in the life of the other.
* Suspend your agenda in the interest of the other's.
* Encourage and affirm your friend at every opportunity.
* Listen twice as much as you talk.
* Give genuine compliments, frequently.
* Accept the person as they are and not as you want them to be.
* Ask questions and listen to their answers. There is a difference between prying and being interested.
* Be enthusiastic.
* Be a friend without conditions.
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Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.
- Roosevelt
Heretics shall perish. Please read the Bible. It is is a whole vast world of wisdom, beauty, and moral truth.
THE DJ BIBLE
[This message has been edited by CHALENGE GUY (edited 07-09-2001).]