“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Charlize Theron, 49, raves about 'amazing' one-night stand with a 26-year-old

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
16,436
Reaction score
18,474
Many women in their 40s/early 50s are able to have sex with an 18-27 year old male with minimal effort.

Charlize Theron is a good looking 49 year old and she has fame. Men in their 20s will find this appealing for short term sex.
Most guys in their 20s have no skills
 

BaronOfHair

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2024
Messages
5,095
Reaction score
2,671
Age
37
Most guys in their 20s have no skills
CT's


-Still hot

-Relatively young by modern standards

-Famous

So young fellas, at this juncture in history, won't turn down a roll in the hay. Girl's in for a rude awakening though, if she believes that she'll still be doing this sh-t a decade from now
 

justaroundthecorner

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 22, 2024
Messages
279
Reaction score
258
Age
40
Well, she is a probably not the best person to say the least (convinced media that her 3-years old black, adopted son at that time told her that he is in fact a girl, therefore she "had to accept it" and raise him as such, while it was probably the other way around if one pays attention to what she says and how she says it...) so no sane guy would be interested in LTR with her I guess (which I believe is the issue she has atm) but ONS "rules of engagement" are entirely different thing.
 

BeExcellent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 16, 2015
Messages
5,354
Reaction score
7,791
Age
57
Facepalm.

An attractive woman getting laid is not news. I think indiscretion like discussing this is a bad idea. Publicity stunt maybe? I dunno. I could easily get sex with someone a generation younger but I find it weird and gross. I could not allow myself to be used in that way, nor would I want to use a guy for that purpose.

I know a woman locally who is hot and sexy at nearly 60. She got married young & had her kids young. She divorced somewhere in her 40s and has made up for lost time becoming the town bicycle. Much younger guys, up through older guys. Two men who are friends of mine have had sex with her. Unsurprisingly she is super insecure now because nobody will get into a relationship with her. Her daughter, who is 30 something, is also a big s lut. Can't keep a guy either.

When I used to run into her out & about I was always cool. She's a cool enough person. But no way....NO WAY I'd associate or be close with a woman like that.

No judgement.....do you.....but I don't care to be judged by others who might assume that about me. Some women cannot grasp the concept that yes, actually, men find promiscuity gross in a woman.....even if they themselves have been promiscuous men. The age old double standard is alive & well....

Oh HELL no. As a woman you have to pay attention to what men value. Most men value chastity or at least the idea of chastity.

Facepalm.
 

BaronOfHair

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 14, 2024
Messages
5,095
Reaction score
2,671
Age
37
Publicity stunt maybe?
Morbid assbite that I am, this is pretty much my read on this incident now. Like a certain politician who sports an exceptionally orange complexion, Theron recognizes that most folks are incapable of simply glancing such a headline, uttering words to the effect of:

"Good for you, C... Life can be tough, and an ounce of outside affection does lighten things up considerably. Hope he ate you out(both Fore and Aft)also, without requiring too much coaxing from you to do so"

Then getting on with life. As a nearly 50 year old actress who ain't particularly versatile(She's been good in a few roles, sure... Nothing that at least few dozen other gals couldn't have also pulled off, likely with far more panache than CT posseseses), she's now doing everything in her power to seize whatever slivers of the limelight Sydney Sweeney, Hailey Steinfeld, Ana De Armas, etc etc haven't staked out for themselves

Which is only slightly less pathetic than S. Segal today attempting to do on DTV exactly what he did during his 15 minutes of fame. Despite said 15 minutes now being over 30 f-cking years in the past, and him being 1/1000th of a shadow of his former self. A self that was already an unintentional self-parody, even during it's/his heyday
 
Last edited:

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
15,432
Reaction score
12,527
An attractive woman getting laid is not news. I think indiscretion like discussing this is a bad idea. Publicity stunt maybe? I dunno. I could easily get sex with someone a generation younger but I find it weird and gross. I could not allow myself to be used in that way, nor would I want to use a guy for that purpose.
Charlize Theron is attractive for her age. It is true that she isn't as attractive at 49 as she was at 29, but she's still attractive enough to get attention.

I can imagine that a woman in her mid to late 40s would find short term sex with a man 20+ years younger to be very exciting. Most women in that situation would realize that they aren't going to get a commitment from that man but they are going to enjoy feeling desirable in the moment.

I imagine that the 26 year old male who had sex with Charlize Theron recently was at least above average in looks.

I don't think Theron would face longer term dating consequences from it. Theron could look at the example of Paulina Porizkova making a big stink publicly about her dating life struggles, then finding a rich, aging Hollywood screenwriter beta male as a boyfriend.


Older women who are well past their prime will usually find a thirsty older beta to bail them out. They might make a stink online during the process but things often seem to work out for them.

I know a woman locally who is hot and sexy at nearly 60. She got married young & had her kids young. She divorced somewhere in her 40s and has made up for lost time becoming the town bicycle. Much younger guys, up through older guys. Two men who are friends of mine have had sex with her. Unsurprisingly she is super insecure now because nobody will get into a relationship with her. Her daughter, who is 30 something, is also a big s lut. Can't keep a guy either.
I am not sure why that 55-60 year old woman that you know locally isn't finding commitment. I would think that she'd find a thirsty older beta to bail her out. This is happening in a major metropolitan area with a high concentration of 55+ individuals living in the area. It seems like there'd be some thirsty Boomers/early Generation X'ers who came of age in a different mating environment era who would look past her history.

She has no children under 18 at this point, which is more appealing to men than a woman with children under 18. I think some guys would find that appealing, but even getting into a relationship with a woman with adult children can be a pain in the butt. Some adult children need a lot of attention, including recent college graduates who aren't finding jobs in the 2025 economy and need to live at home with a parent. For older adults who date, the presence of adult children often can make holiday and family gatherings annoying. Often times, there are older adults dating with 2 sets of adult children.

Your acquaintance's 30 something daughter sounds like many women I've interacted with in my city's mating environment. She likely has a job that pays her enough to be self-supporting. She's probably spent the last 10+ years riding the penis carousel wherever she lives. I can imagine that mother and daughter commiserate about the mating environment, either via calls/texts (if they live further apart) or in-person (if they live in the same city).
 

HaleyBaron

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 25, 2021
Messages
2,676
Reaction score
2,265
Too many bp young men taking Ls with porn fantasies of f*cking an older woman. What a sad life. I see a lot of rich young guys and athletes fall into this trap too. Hell, Brock Lesnar himself, one you would think is an alpha, married a used up older woman in WWE. No man is safe.
 

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
15,432
Reaction score
12,527
Too many bp young men taking Ls with porn fantasies of f*cking an older woman.
Since at least the 2000s, the 30s/40s older woman having sex with a younger man has become a common niche in porn. I think this has influenced younger men. Right now, in the 2020s, there's a cumulative effect of 20+ years of this porn niche being popular.

The youngest adult males (18-24) often have a difficult time finding younger women. The pool of younger women is smaller since the males aren't older than most women. For 18-24 year old males, the best bet is to date someone in the same age pool. Those women are in the primes. A younger male could hope that the similarly aged female is at least a few months younger than he is. It's even common for men 18-24 starting interactions to date a woman 6 months - 3 years older, though most of these interactions will fizzle out within 1-2 years.

By the time that a man is 25-27, there's a good pool of women out there that are younger than he is. There's no reason to go older at that age.

The man who recently had sex with Charlize Theron was 26 years old while having sex with her. A 26 year old man could use his time on a 21-26 year old woman and that's a better use of his time.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
15,432
Reaction score
12,527

Megyn Kelly states that she believes Charlize Theron prefers sex with women and that she thinks the sex with the 26 year old never happened.
 
Top