"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I know that times are tough. But can anyone suggest their favorite charily that they trust and why.



thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I donate to military charities such as Wounded Warriors and Helping Hospitalized Veterans. Reason- Out vets need all the help they can get.
 

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Pacific Garden Mission

Been helping the poor and needy in downtown chicago since 1877

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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backbreaker

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Big Brothers Big Sisters. My mom was a big sister to a girl and I saw how it actually helped the girl out, a lotl. I am a big brother now and I donate something every month
 

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Shriners Children's Hospitals.

It is amazing to be a Shriner. In our parade units are proud, grown men who are willing to humble themselves as clowns for the amusement of the small children, and to raise money for our free hospitals. Me, I drive a little red Corvette, so my experience is less humbling. Actually it's a blast.

Last summer, a hairstylist broke down and started bawling as she cut my hair. I asked her what was wrong. She said her son had a spinal condition and required a major surgery, and she had no idea how to pay for it. I told her not to worry, that the Shriners would take care of it. And they did.

I see wonderful things as a Shriner. A member of our Divan (the leadership of our Temple), a seemingly normal light-beer drinking and F150-driving man, stood up at a parade afterparty last summer with a check for $25,000,000 in his hands, made out to the Hospital fund. Turns out he is the inheritor of a massive enterprise, obviously a millionaire many times over, and he was compelled to give part of his fortune to the Shrine.
 
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