"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I know that times are tough. But can anyone suggest their favorite charily that they trust and why.



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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dust 2 Dust

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I donate to military charities such as Wounded Warriors and Helping Hospitalized Veterans. Reason- Out vets need all the help they can get.
 

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Pacific Garden Mission

Been helping the poor and needy in downtown chicago since 1877

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Big Brothers Big Sisters. My mom was a big sister to a girl and I saw how it actually helped the girl out, a lotl. I am a big brother now and I donate something every month
 

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Shriners Children's Hospitals.

It is amazing to be a Shriner. In our parade units are proud, grown men who are willing to humble themselves as clowns for the amusement of the small children, and to raise money for our free hospitals. Me, I drive a little red Corvette, so my experience is less humbling. Actually it's a blast.

Last summer, a hairstylist broke down and started bawling as she cut my hair. I asked her what was wrong. She said her son had a spinal condition and required a major surgery, and she had no idea how to pay for it. I told her not to worry, that the Shriners would take care of it. And they did.

I see wonderful things as a Shriner. A member of our Divan (the leadership of our Temple), a seemingly normal light-beer drinking and F150-driving man, stood up at a parade afterparty last summer with a check for $25,000,000 in his hands, made out to the Hospital fund. Turns out he is the inheritor of a massive enterprise, obviously a millionaire many times over, and he was compelled to give part of his fortune to the Shrine.
 
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