"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Charisma: the most important quality for a man to have, yet also the least definable. Sure, I can go pick up women left and right..women are easy game...all you gotta do is play with their heads a bit and take it from there...

The real test is that of charisma on people you are not wanting to bang...on social superiors, on peers, on total strangers. For instance, charisma is the most important part of a job interview, or for an electoral candidate for all of the ignorant voters.

So, I ask you, what can be done for one to increase their level of charisma....and have you found any correlations between charisma and some other aspect of a person( physical, mental, and social)?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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to increase their level of charisma you can fake it or become more charismatic. Studies say you are more charismatic if you are happy. Now get happy. There is tons of stuff on this sight to take it from here.
 

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Excellent advice.
Do you have any links to these studies?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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go to your local library and look up a book on Charisma. U will find plenty of info on charisma in any leadership textbook. I am studying at the moment, it is very interesting. It is hard to define but attributes traits a charismatic might have. Hard to explain and too lengthy I dont have the time to write it all down. Go to your library and u will have a wealth of info at your fingertips!!
 

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Charisma? Easy do define!

Charisma is another way of naming the strenght of your aura. There are two things that define it:

-As already said, how strong it is
-How clean it is

A strong aura is very attractive. It's a magnet. While it's cleanness is what makes a person look positive, happy, satisfied. Or in other words, he SHINES.

And, contra to lots of believes, aura is changable beyond imagination, with the proper procedures. I'm currently in the process and can attes it does make miracles.
 
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