"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Charisma: the most important quality for a man to have, yet also the least definable. Sure, I can go pick up women left and right..women are easy game...all you gotta do is play with their heads a bit and take it from there...

The real test is that of charisma on people you are not wanting to bang...on social superiors, on peers, on total strangers. For instance, charisma is the most important part of a job interview, or for an electoral candidate for all of the ignorant voters.

So, I ask you, what can be done for one to increase their level of charisma....and have you found any correlations between charisma and some other aspect of a person( physical, mental, and social)?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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to increase their level of charisma you can fake it or become more charismatic. Studies say you are more charismatic if you are happy. Now get happy. There is tons of stuff on this sight to take it from here.
 

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Excellent advice.
Do you have any links to these studies?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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go to your local library and look up a book on Charisma. U will find plenty of info on charisma in any leadership textbook. I am studying at the moment, it is very interesting. It is hard to define but attributes traits a charismatic might have. Hard to explain and too lengthy I dont have the time to write it all down. Go to your library and u will have a wealth of info at your fingertips!!
 

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Charisma? Easy do define!

Charisma is another way of naming the strenght of your aura. There are two things that define it:

-As already said, how strong it is
-How clean it is

A strong aura is very attractive. It's a magnet. While it's cleanness is what makes a person look positive, happy, satisfied. Or in other words, he SHINES.

And, contra to lots of believes, aura is changable beyond imagination, with the proper procedures. I'm currently in the process and can attes it does make miracles.
 
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