"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charisma : where to start?

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moorerodney

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We have all heard the saying, " it's not what you say; it's how you say it."
lately my game is stuck on the how. I've been doing inner game work ( or what I think is inner game work; basically pep talks and zen stuff) to gain charisma. We all know how much greater you game is when you have charisma , so my question is how do we gain that sexy charisma women love.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FairShake

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If you are yourself and not trying to be someone you think everyone will like you will be charismatic to SOME people. The people who get you.

Otherwise you are caught up in trying to impress people and are not natural.
 
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