"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Charisma : where to start?

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moorerodney

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We have all heard the saying, " it's not what you say; it's how you say it."
lately my game is stuck on the how. I've been doing inner game work ( or what I think is inner game work; basically pep talks and zen stuff) to gain charisma. We all know how much greater you game is when you have charisma , so my question is how do we gain that sexy charisma women love.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FairShake

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If you are yourself and not trying to be someone you think everyone will like you will be charismatic to SOME people. The people who get you.

Otherwise you are caught up in trying to impress people and are not natural.
 
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