"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chapstick

Vandermast

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Put some on. Seriously. Even if you don't have cracked or dry lips. The ladies WILL NOTICE your lips when they look smooth and soft. I found when I am "ducking" to put on chapstick the ladies notice even more while I do it & makes them to wonder. I will still experiment some more with it.

Don't believe me? All you will lose is $1 if I am lying.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I-am-someone

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So... how exactly has this helped you kiss more women?

Isn't it possible they're just questioning your sexuality? :p

I don't really see how attraction could come from something like chapstick...

Never the less! Dry or cracked lips should be cured, so don't forget to buy some chapstick anyway ;)
 

Qmanchoo

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It has nothing to do with dry or cracked lips… I think you're, respectfully, missing the point. It's the act of rubbing something on your lips that is very sensual to (some, certainly not all) girls/women and gets them turned on, which is why they notice. Also, when your lips are glossy they look "more kissable" and inviting, that also get their attention.

Just make sure you don't do it if it's out of character so it doesn't seem like a tactic. You wont find Joe Jock spreading gloss over his lips for fear of being branded a fag by his buddies.

Many women/Girls get turned on when they touch their own lips or rub them, seeing someone rub their lips elicits that feeling within them. Kind of like when you're really hungry and you look at a big juicy steak you start to drool. Especially if that particular girl is a horn ball.

I used to have a strange habit of rubbing the smooth mouth of glass beer bottles along my bottom lip if I was distracted while drinking... if you watch body language carefully you'll sometimes... not always... see that "I’m getting excited" reaction coming for a girl.

If it fits your personality and isn't out of character go for it, if not scrap it.
 

I-am-someone

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I see where you're coming from.
However, I still feel that it's a passive strategy, which usually leads nowhere.
 

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What i have noticed is that when i put chapstick on my lips, that my lips start to need the chapstick and are constantly chapped, i find myself putting on chapstick like every 5 minutes. I stopped putting on chapstick a couple of weeks ago, the first couple days my lips were chapped pretty badly, now my lips rarely get chapped and look healthier than ever.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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splinterkb

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Women like men with good hygiene and take care of themselves. Noone wants to suck on some dry flaky rough skin either.
 

Doggystyle

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Jugglers take on this is he put on the chap and they says "not that i'm presuming anything but just incase theres some kissing later"..... get a negative reaction then dont bother pursueing it any further and just move on, a positive reaction, i.e. a giggle or something along those lines then your golden
 
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