"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Chapstick

Vandermast

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Put some on. Seriously. Even if you don't have cracked or dry lips. The ladies WILL NOTICE your lips when they look smooth and soft. I found when I am "ducking" to put on chapstick the ladies notice even more while I do it & makes them to wonder. I will still experiment some more with it.

Don't believe me? All you will lose is $1 if I am lying.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I-am-someone

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So... how exactly has this helped you kiss more women?

Isn't it possible they're just questioning your sexuality? :p

I don't really see how attraction could come from something like chapstick...

Never the less! Dry or cracked lips should be cured, so don't forget to buy some chapstick anyway ;)
 

Qmanchoo

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It has nothing to do with dry or cracked lips… I think you're, respectfully, missing the point. It's the act of rubbing something on your lips that is very sensual to (some, certainly not all) girls/women and gets them turned on, which is why they notice. Also, when your lips are glossy they look "more kissable" and inviting, that also get their attention.

Just make sure you don't do it if it's out of character so it doesn't seem like a tactic. You wont find Joe Jock spreading gloss over his lips for fear of being branded a fag by his buddies.

Many women/Girls get turned on when they touch their own lips or rub them, seeing someone rub their lips elicits that feeling within them. Kind of like when you're really hungry and you look at a big juicy steak you start to drool. Especially if that particular girl is a horn ball.

I used to have a strange habit of rubbing the smooth mouth of glass beer bottles along my bottom lip if I was distracted while drinking... if you watch body language carefully you'll sometimes... not always... see that "I’m getting excited" reaction coming for a girl.

If it fits your personality and isn't out of character go for it, if not scrap it.
 

I-am-someone

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I see where you're coming from.
However, I still feel that it's a passive strategy, which usually leads nowhere.
 

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What i have noticed is that when i put chapstick on my lips, that my lips start to need the chapstick and are constantly chapped, i find myself putting on chapstick like every 5 minutes. I stopped putting on chapstick a couple of weeks ago, the first couple days my lips were chapped pretty badly, now my lips rarely get chapped and look healthier than ever.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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splinterkb

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Women like men with good hygiene and take care of themselves. Noone wants to suck on some dry flaky rough skin either.
 

Doggystyle

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Jugglers take on this is he put on the chap and they says "not that i'm presuming anything but just incase theres some kissing later"..... get a negative reaction then dont bother pursueing it any further and just move on, a positive reaction, i.e. a giggle or something along those lines then your golden
 
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