"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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changing your accent?

Centaurion

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Any pointers on how one can change your accent? Any books or tapes that you guys recommend?

Thing is, I used to have this cool ass british accent when I was younger, but then I started out hanging out with americans, so now I got this weird accent that is a cross between Yank-canadian. People always ask me if I'm from Canada, even the States sometimes, even though I'm from Norway.

It kinda sucks major balls. I just want to go back to my normal sweet british accent.

Any tips would be much appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I-am-someone

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So, just change back.
You know how to talk the way you used to talk.
The only problem is that you're afraid of the way your friends and family will react to it.

Stop worrying about them and just start talking like that.
 

diablo

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Move to the UK for a year; the longer I take a trip abroad, the longer the accent stays with me.
 

CableLight

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Yank-Canadian? What's that all a'boot? :p
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ScrewIt

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i used to have a personal trainer, which was from london. I had mistaken him as an Aussie at first :p
 
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