Changing personality...

[illmatic1005]

What do u do when your gf is a total biotch in person sometimes....
like if u say NO to her for something she ignores u and doesnt talk to u for a while and acts like she doesnt care about you..or if u try to tease her she gets all offended

BUT

on the phone, thru emails, and thru myspace she acts like she is in love with u and that 'u mean soo much to her'' and trash like that

why would she change her personalities like this and what do u do about it??

 

[bukowski_merit]

when she's away from you she's bored and lonely - so she feels one way about you.

but sometimes when she's around you - she's bored and feels like pissing on her fire hydrant.

or something like that...

it's pretty normal
my girl doesn't email me on myspace to complain about something
she emails me to say she loves me and misses me etc...

in real life - the fantasy of having a perfect lover is dead.

 

[Interceptor]

It often means that she probably appreciates the fact that you CAN say "NO" to her, and can "put her in her place."

Most women want a man who stands up to them, and doesn't give them EVERYTHING they ask for.

Don't pay attention to her 'face' or 'expressions'.
She has to do that in order to not feel like she's being submissive or simply accepting her punishment for bad behavior.

it's probably all a front.

Make sure you stay DOMINANT....NOT DOMINEERING.


Make sure you stay in CONTROL..........NOT CONTROLLING.

And continue to punish for bad behavior, reward for good behaviopr.

It's not abiout 'training" a womna, as if she was some puppy dog.
She's a human being, she doesn't deserve that.


I do NOT advocate any attitude of 'training" a woman.


Simply have a strong Personal Boundary, and demonstrate your high class, and CHARACTER.


What she does deserve is a strong, MASCULINE man who will not tolerate bratty, b*tchy, low class behavior from his woman.


Women WANT and are ATTRACTED to MEN WHO CANNOT BE 'DOMINATED".

Any drama from your woman is often a token sign of disagreement, when secretly she is thrilled that you stand up to her.