“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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illmatic1005

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What do u do when your gf is a total biotch in person sometimes....
like if u say NO to her for something she ignores u and doesnt talk to u for a while and acts like she doesnt care about you..or if u try to tease her she gets all offended

BUT

on the phone, thru emails, and thru myspace she acts like she is in love with u and that 'u mean soo much to her'' and trash like that

why would she change her personalities like this and what do u do about it??
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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when she's away from you she's bored and lonely - so she feels one way about you.

but sometimes when she's around you - she's bored and feels like pissing on her fire hydrant.

or something like that...

it's pretty normal
my girl doesn't email me on myspace to complain about something
she emails me to say she loves me and misses me etc...

in real life - the fantasy of having a perfect lover is dead.
 

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It often means that she probably appreciates the fact that you CAN say "NO" to her, and can "put her in her place."

Most women want a man who stands up to them, and doesn't give them EVERYTHING they ask for.

Don't pay attention to her 'face' or 'expressions'.
She has to do that in order to not feel like she's being submissive or simply accepting her punishment for bad behavior.

it's probably all a front.

Make sure you stay DOMINANT....NOT DOMINEERING.


Make sure you stay in CONTROL..........NOT CONTROLLING.

And continue to punish for bad behavior, reward for good behaviopr.

It's not abiout 'training" a womna, as if she was some puppy dog.
She's a human being, she doesn't deserve that.


I do NOT advocate any attitude of 'training" a woman.


Simply have a strong Personal Boundary, and demonstrate your high class, and CHARACTER.


What she does deserve is a strong, MASCULINE man who will not tolerate bratty, b*tchy, low class behavior from his woman.


Women WANT and are ATTRACTED to MEN WHO CANNOT BE 'DOMINATED".


Any drama from your woman is often a token sign of disagreement, when secretly she is thrilled that you stand up to her.
 
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