"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Changing need some help

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I had a question. I want to change I'm going to try my best this summer to change my afc ways and try to become a better person. Even though I'm not that big of an AFC I still have trouble with convos and confidence. My question is I heard you can't really do a 180 on people you already now but I'm not changing schools or going to college until two years from now. So is it good to cut contact with most of the people I know. I'm a pretty popular guy tho but still a afc. So I wanted to know what I should do should I cut contact with most of the people I know and stop going on aim and such. Or can I still change while hanging out and chilling with most of my friends that I will probly see over the summer. Sry for the errors had to right this in a hurry gotta get back to craming for my last final
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Of course you shouldn't cut off contact with your friends right now. Believe me, if you change for the better, everyone will notice and wont really question it. People's attitudes will change of you and you'll probably make more friends anyway in the process.

My really close friend Thomas even told me once that I'd changed soo much from when I was younger. That I'm more independent, laid back, and I hardly worry about girls anymore.

So yea, if you wanna change your ways, it's okay to keep contact with your current friends.
 
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thx also I think I'm going to try to stay off aim for a while
 
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My personal rant about my life

My life sucks right now. All my friends have day jobs and sit around at night playing video games and playing basketball right now. Two things I dislike very much. I don't have a license for driving so going to the mall and talking to strangers to make new friends is impossible for right now. I now have degenerated to swimming, baseball, mowing, and being on this site all day. So pretty I can't do anything right now but what since I can't go out I am going to learn to be more independent like learn to cook and do a whole bunch of stuff. Expect to see alot more of me now.
 
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Great :^D I'm one of those guys right now that has a day job too. heh But if you're getting bored with your life I'd agree that the best way to cure that is to find some more hobbies. It'll get better..
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DA sucks about baseball maybe you could once in a while take the bus to the mall if it's not to much of a hassle or just walk around and chill on the block.
 
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