"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Changing need some help

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I had a question. I want to change I'm going to try my best this summer to change my afc ways and try to become a better person. Even though I'm not that big of an AFC I still have trouble with convos and confidence. My question is I heard you can't really do a 180 on people you already now but I'm not changing schools or going to college until two years from now. So is it good to cut contact with most of the people I know. I'm a pretty popular guy tho but still a afc. So I wanted to know what I should do should I cut contact with most of the people I know and stop going on aim and such. Or can I still change while hanging out and chilling with most of my friends that I will probly see over the summer. Sry for the errors had to right this in a hurry gotta get back to craming for my last final
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jerky Boi

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Of course you shouldn't cut off contact with your friends right now. Believe me, if you change for the better, everyone will notice and wont really question it. People's attitudes will change of you and you'll probably make more friends anyway in the process.

My really close friend Thomas even told me once that I'd changed soo much from when I was younger. That I'm more independent, laid back, and I hardly worry about girls anymore.

So yea, if you wanna change your ways, it's okay to keep contact with your current friends.
 

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thx also I think I'm going to try to stay off aim for a while
 

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My personal rant about my life

My life sucks right now. All my friends have day jobs and sit around at night playing video games and playing basketball right now. Two things I dislike very much. I don't have a license for driving so going to the mall and talking to strangers to make new friends is impossible for right now. I now have degenerated to swimming, baseball, mowing, and being on this site all day. So pretty I can't do anything right now but what since I can't go out I am going to learn to be more independent like learn to cook and do a whole bunch of stuff. Expect to see alot more of me now.
 

Jerky Boi

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Great :^D I'm one of those guys right now that has a day job too. heh But if you're getting bored with your life I'd agree that the best way to cure that is to find some more hobbies. It'll get better..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DA sucks about baseball maybe you could once in a while take the bus to the mall if it's not to much of a hassle or just walk around and chill on the block.
 
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