"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Changing Careers..Fear of Spinning My Wheels

mastersylar

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I am currently an unemployed accountant that is considering medical school. My biggest fear holding me back is my fear of spinning my wheels for 1-2 years to go for something that might not happen. I think I have an ok chance, but my biggest fear is not getting in and wasting 2 years preparing for something with nothing in return.

I can always take a temporary job and eventually get back into accounting. I am getting kindof old (25 years old).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hughman

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mastersylar said:
I am currently an unemployed accountant that is considering medical school. My biggest fear holding me back is my fear of spinning my wheels for 1-2 years to go for something that might not happen. I think I have an ok chance, but my biggest fear is not getting in and wasting 2 years preparing for something with nothing in return.

I can always take a temporary job and eventually get back into accounting. I am getting kindof old (25 years old).
What country are you in for a start? Do you already have a degree? Any work experience with a 'caring' setting? Is this a decision on a whim, or you always wanted to be a doctor, but something held you back?

I'm entering medical school September, grades permitting, so I know how you feel.

Surely you don't need to give up on the day job whilst applying?
 

3countriesPlan

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I'm in the same boat as you.. getting older (26) and I want to find a career that I enjoy that can pay the bills. Take a chance otherwise be prepared to be 45 and asking the same question.
 
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