"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Changing Careers..Fear of Spinning My Wheels

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I am currently an unemployed accountant that is considering medical school. My biggest fear holding me back is my fear of spinning my wheels for 1-2 years to go for something that might not happen. I think I have an ok chance, but my biggest fear is not getting in and wasting 2 years preparing for something with nothing in return.

I can always take a temporary job and eventually get back into accounting. I am getting kindof old (25 years old).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mastersylar said:
I am currently an unemployed accountant that is considering medical school. My biggest fear holding me back is my fear of spinning my wheels for 1-2 years to go for something that might not happen. I think I have an ok chance, but my biggest fear is not getting in and wasting 2 years preparing for something with nothing in return.

I can always take a temporary job and eventually get back into accounting. I am getting kindof old (25 years old).
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What country are you in for a start? Do you already have a degree? Any work experience with a 'caring' setting? Is this a decision on a whim, or you always wanted to be a doctor, but something held you back?

I'm entering medical school September, grades permitting, so I know how you feel.

Surely you don't need to give up on the day job whilst applying?
 
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I'm in the same boat as you.. getting older (26) and I want to find a career that I enjoy that can pay the bills. Take a chance otherwise be prepared to be 45 and asking the same question.
 
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