"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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changing a relationship from a classmate into a friend

collalife

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how to turn classmates into friends(a vague question)?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nighthawk

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A stranger's just a friend you haven't met yet.

Or a serial killer sometimes.

Lots of threads here about how to be popular and make friends. But if you're talking about a female, are you sure that it's just friendship your really after?
 

619joe

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Easiest stuff ever man dont stress about it

1.When you get into class,as soon as you see em say like "Hey whats up".Then go from there.If that is tough then you need some serious help bro.

2.Why not talk with them during class?As them if they find this stuff easy/confusing.Once your comfortable switch to out of school subjects

3.FACEBOOK IS YOUR FRIEND.Add em up or even add "hey its me from ______'s class.Whats goin on?"
 
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