"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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changing a relationship from a classmate into a friend

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how to turn classmates into friends(a vague question)?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A stranger's just a friend you haven't met yet.

Or a serial killer sometimes.

Lots of threads here about how to be popular and make friends. But if you're talking about a female, are you sure that it's just friendship your really after?
 
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Easiest stuff ever man dont stress about it

1.When you get into class,as soon as you see em say like "Hey whats up".Then go from there.If that is tough then you need some serious help bro.

2.Why not talk with them during class?As them if they find this stuff easy/confusing.Once your comfortable switch to out of school subjects

3.FACEBOOK IS YOUR FRIEND.Add em up or even add "hey its me from ______'s class.Whats goin on?"
 
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