"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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changing a relationship from a classmate into a friend

collalife

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how to turn classmates into friends(a vague question)?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nighthawk

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A stranger's just a friend you haven't met yet.

Or a serial killer sometimes.

Lots of threads here about how to be popular and make friends. But if you're talking about a female, are you sure that it's just friendship your really after?
 

619joe

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Easiest stuff ever man dont stress about it

1.When you get into class,as soon as you see em say like "Hey whats up".Then go from there.If that is tough then you need some serious help bro.

2.Why not talk with them during class?As them if they find this stuff easy/confusing.Once your comfortable switch to out of school subjects

3.FACEBOOK IS YOUR FRIEND.Add em up or even add "hey its me from ______'s class.Whats goin on?"
 
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