I was walking down the hall this morning, and something just didn't feel right. It was as if I didn't feel good about myself today. I hadn't heard from a girl I had been talking to, and it was causing me to second guess my self. I found that I was telling myself that I must not be good enough. Then the rest of me became congruent with that feeling. Now, IF I were still AFC, I'd be calling her and trying to qualify myself, but thankfully I didn't.
Then something snapped. My mind went back to positive thinking. I started to realize that I used to do that to myself because of a women all the time. I realized a woman cannot make me who I am. Just because a woman is not in my life or has stopped pursuing anything with me, does not change who I am. People change their minds all the time, and I (or you) should not let that affect me (or you).
I am who I am regardless of a woman. There are plenty on my plate, but because the one I like the most is not calling does not mean I have to get down on myself. She's just making a piss poor decision. She doesn't know what she's missing. Now, if she calls, I probably won't answer because I want her to feel like she messed up. I'll answer after a few calls because I don't care if I lose her. The woman does not make the man. My life is as it is without her.
Now, this is a place where every man should be. I've finally gotten there, and It's the best feeling in the world. I've found things that I really enjoy, and my time is full of enjoyment. If a woman comes in my life that I like (which has been hard to find lately), she will only add to my fulfilled life.
So, do not make a woman the center of your life. Know exactly who you are, so no one can tell you different. Find enjoyment out of life! Don't mope around if a woman walks out on you because she has just given you a new lease on life. What you tell yourself about yourself is what you'll become. So, start giving yourself some POSITIVE affirmations and BELIEVE in yourself. Change you attitude!
Then something snapped. My mind went back to positive thinking. I started to realize that I used to do that to myself because of a women all the time. I realized a woman cannot make me who I am. Just because a woman is not in my life or has stopped pursuing anything with me, does not change who I am. People change their minds all the time, and I (or you) should not let that affect me (or you).
I am who I am regardless of a woman. There are plenty on my plate, but because the one I like the most is not calling does not mean I have to get down on myself. She's just making a piss poor decision. She doesn't know what she's missing. Now, if she calls, I probably won't answer because I want her to feel like she messed up. I'll answer after a few calls because I don't care if I lose her. The woman does not make the man. My life is as it is without her.
Now, this is a place where every man should be. I've finally gotten there, and It's the best feeling in the world. I've found things that I really enjoy, and my time is full of enjoyment. If a woman comes in my life that I like (which has been hard to find lately), she will only add to my fulfilled life.
So, do not make a woman the center of your life. Know exactly who you are, so no one can tell you different. Find enjoyment out of life! Don't mope around if a woman walks out on you because she has just given you a new lease on life. What you tell yourself about yourself is what you'll become. So, start giving yourself some POSITIVE affirmations and BELIEVE in yourself. Change you attitude!