"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Change of Perspective?

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I am going to be a junior now in HS. had a class with a girl that is really hot now back in the 8th grade. i wanna get with her but i had a pretty bad rep back then since i was the new kid but now im pretty up there in ruling my class. how do i get her to change this perspective of me and make her think im the greatest catch of the world... cuz i am :p

i know this belongs in the HS forum but i think this is applicable in an any situation. changing perspective.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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that was in the 8th grade when i was a AFC. Now i rule my class and as a completely different person now, i am afraid that she will still think i am afc.
 
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that was in the 8th grade when i was a AFC. Now i rule my class and as a completely different person now, i am afraid that she will still think i am afc.
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If you are really ruling your class like you say you are, she will know it.

Can you really be an AFC in 8th grade? You're just a kid. Guys don't come out of the womb with chest hair and a gold chain.
 
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i was the new kid back then and everyone was like oh... new kid ehhh... basically everyone thought i was pretty lame and idk i didn't fit in.
 
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and do you think i should approach myself as if i didn't know her or ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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