"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Change of Perspective?

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I am going to be a junior now in HS. had a class with a girl that is really hot now back in the 8th grade. i wanna get with her but i had a pretty bad rep back then since i was the new kid but now im pretty up there in ruling my class. how do i get her to change this perspective of me and make her think im the greatest catch of the world... cuz i am :p

i know this belongs in the HS forum but i think this is applicable in an any situation. changing perspective.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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that was in the 8th grade when i was a AFC. Now i rule my class and as a completely different person now, i am afraid that she will still think i am afc.
 

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that was in the 8th grade when i was a AFC. Now i rule my class and as a completely different person now, i am afraid that she will still think i am afc.
If you are really ruling your class like you say you are, she will know it.

Can you really be an AFC in 8th grade? You're just a kid. Guys don't come out of the womb with chest hair and a gold chain.
 

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i was the new kid back then and everyone was like oh... new kid ehhh... basically everyone thought i was pretty lame and idk i didn't fit in.
 

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and do you think i should approach myself as if i didn't know her or ?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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