"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Change of Perspective?

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I am going to be a junior now in HS. had a class with a girl that is really hot now back in the 8th grade. i wanna get with her but i had a pretty bad rep back then since i was the new kid but now im pretty up there in ruling my class. how do i get her to change this perspective of me and make her think im the greatest catch of the world... cuz i am :p

i know this belongs in the HS forum but i think this is applicable in an any situation. changing perspective.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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that was in the 8th grade when i was a AFC. Now i rule my class and as a completely different person now, i am afraid that she will still think i am afc.
 
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that was in the 8th grade when i was a AFC. Now i rule my class and as a completely different person now, i am afraid that she will still think i am afc.
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If you are really ruling your class like you say you are, she will know it.

Can you really be an AFC in 8th grade? You're just a kid. Guys don't come out of the womb with chest hair and a gold chain.
 
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i was the new kid back then and everyone was like oh... new kid ehhh... basically everyone thought i was pretty lame and idk i didn't fit in.
 
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and do you think i should approach myself as if i didn't know her or ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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