"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Change begins tonight!

Gustav Yavo

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Ive been moping around the house for a week since me and the gf broke up about a week ago. Been feeling sorry for myself and looking for pity from anyone who will listen.

NO MORE

Tonight im going out to live my life, sarge as many girls as i can and get some numbers or action. I gotta get out of this rut, because things aren't just going to happen cause i want them to.

Time to start acting like a man and take control of my life, steering it into greener pastures and making myself the best i can be!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good for you! Stick with that mentality and I'm sure you'll find success. I've been down and moping around, too, so maybe I should try this as well and see where it takes me. :)
 

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Good s**t man!!!! Go for it man and when you feel in doubt just think to yourself that if every member on this board was there in person with you, we'd be right behind you egging you on bro!!!!
 

Gustav Yavo

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2 number closes last night. A hb6 and a hb7. Not bad, i think im gonna ditch the hb6, and go after something better though... good night all around though
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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