"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Change begins tonight!

Gustav Yavo

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Ive been moping around the house for a week since me and the gf broke up about a week ago. Been feeling sorry for myself and looking for pity from anyone who will listen.

NO MORE

Tonight im going out to live my life, sarge as many girls as i can and get some numbers or action. I gotta get out of this rut, because things aren't just going to happen cause i want them to.

Time to start acting like a man and take control of my life, steering it into greener pastures and making myself the best i can be!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pLaYtHiNg

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Good for you! Stick with that mentality and I'm sure you'll find success. I've been down and moping around, too, so maybe I should try this as well and see where it takes me. :)
 

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Good s**t man!!!! Go for it man and when you feel in doubt just think to yourself that if every member on this board was there in person with you, we'd be right behind you egging you on bro!!!!
 

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2 number closes last night. A hb6 and a hb7. Not bad, i think im gonna ditch the hb6, and go after something better though... good night all around though
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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