"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Change begins tonight!

Gustav Yavo

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Ive been moping around the house for a week since me and the gf broke up about a week ago. Been feeling sorry for myself and looking for pity from anyone who will listen.

NO MORE

Tonight im going out to live my life, sarge as many girls as i can and get some numbers or action. I gotta get out of this rut, because things aren't just going to happen cause i want them to.

Time to start acting like a man and take control of my life, steering it into greener pastures and making myself the best i can be!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good for you! Stick with that mentality and I'm sure you'll find success. I've been down and moping around, too, so maybe I should try this as well and see where it takes me. :)
 

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Good s**t man!!!! Go for it man and when you feel in doubt just think to yourself that if every member on this board was there in person with you, we'd be right behind you egging you on bro!!!!
 

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2 number closes last night. A hb6 and a hb7. Not bad, i think im gonna ditch the hb6, and go after something better though... good night all around though
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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