"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chances of a girl giving out her number?

DJ_Dave

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If a fairly good looking girl asked me out, I reckon there'd be a good chance (like over 50%) i'd at least go for a drink with her if she came across as pleasant, funny, whatever and I have quite high standards.

What do you reckon the chances are when the guy is asking the girl out, just out of interest.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yuppaz

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Usually 7 or 8 out of 10.....Actually getting together 3-4 out of 10
 

DJ_Dave

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I wouldn't have expected it to be that high to be honest...maybe you're just a pro!
 

Who Dares Win

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Getting the number at the end of the first meeting 8 out of 10, getting a date from that number 5 out of 10.

It actually doesnt take much to get a phone number as long as you somehow know what you are doing, the problem is later on getting the date.
When asking her out she will find any possible reason for not accepting, also many guys are competing through her cellphone or facebook for her time plus they
are women and dont act rationally.

When you first meet them its usually you leading the interaction so you have somehow power in their decision, when you send a text or call the ball is in her court.
For this reasons there is that ration between numbers taken and dates obtained.
 

d!ckmojo

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I very very rarely get turned down for a #close. Maybe 1 out of 10. The key is to build comfort and rapport, build a connection. And don't telegraph interest too early. Never IOI her first, you wait till she starts giving you IOI's. Then you qualify her so she has to DHV herself, then you reward her by asking her number. Simple.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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