"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chances of a girl giving out her number?

DJ_Dave

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If a fairly good looking girl asked me out, I reckon there'd be a good chance (like over 50%) i'd at least go for a drink with her if she came across as pleasant, funny, whatever and I have quite high standards.

What do you reckon the chances are when the guy is asking the girl out, just out of interest.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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yuppaz

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Usually 7 or 8 out of 10.....Actually getting together 3-4 out of 10
 

DJ_Dave

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I wouldn't have expected it to be that high to be honest...maybe you're just a pro!
 

Who Dares Win

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Getting the number at the end of the first meeting 8 out of 10, getting a date from that number 5 out of 10.

It actually doesnt take much to get a phone number as long as you somehow know what you are doing, the problem is later on getting the date.
When asking her out she will find any possible reason for not accepting, also many guys are competing through her cellphone or facebook for her time plus they
are women and dont act rationally.

When you first meet them its usually you leading the interaction so you have somehow power in their decision, when you send a text or call the ball is in her court.
For this reasons there is that ration between numbers taken and dates obtained.
 

d!ckmojo

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I very very rarely get turned down for a #close. Maybe 1 out of 10. The key is to build comfort and rapport, build a connection. And don't telegraph interest too early. Never IOI her first, you wait till she starts giving you IOI's. Then you qualify her so she has to DHV herself, then you reward her by asking her number. Simple.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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