"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Chance with this girl in class?

DJnoob

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Well, 1 more day of class and thats it..

I know this girl who sits next to me in class got a good impression of me as this c & f type guy.. she giggles at my jokes even when im not directly making fun of her..Example, i'd tease someone 4 seats infront of me and she'd just giggle... I just noticed that.

THinking of asking for her # last day of class and i thought that would be the right moment... What you guys think? any chance here. This a good sign? or just a friendly sign

Thanks

(P.S. would getting her email address be as good as getting her phone #?)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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frivolousz21

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go for the Juggernaut and get the number....just go in and be yourself and relax..keep doing the stuff you are already doing..if you get time....ask her in class..if not make sure u walk out by her, strike up a convo and do it.

regardless of wether she gives it to u or not..DO IT!
 

DJnoob

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So, the best place to ask a chick for her number would be away from people?
 

Kaliffoo

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People around you dont care if you're asking for a girls number....do it in class or out doesnt matter JUST DO IT! or else you'll regret it later.
 

BeLoSH

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dont care about what anyone else thinks. you wont move forward in life if you do.

never forget these fine words that i read from this site:

"The feeling of not approaching is far worse than geting rejected"

Go4it man. Good luck.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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thefonz

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she's letting you know she wants you, just do it.....and no don't ask for her email address...thats what study buddies do
 
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