"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chance with this girl in class?

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DJnoob

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Well, 1 more day of class and thats it..

I know this girl who sits next to me in class got a good impression of me as this c & f type guy.. she giggles at my jokes even when im not directly making fun of her..Example, i'd tease someone 4 seats infront of me and she'd just giggle... I just noticed that.

THinking of asking for her # last day of class and i thought that would be the right moment... What you guys think? any chance here. This a good sign? or just a friendly sign

Thanks

(P.S. would getting her email address be as good as getting her phone #?)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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frivolousz21

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go for the Juggernaut and get the number....just go in and be yourself and relax..keep doing the stuff you are already doing..if you get time....ask her in class..if not make sure u walk out by her, strike up a convo and do it.

regardless of wether she gives it to u or not..DO IT!
 
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DJnoob

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So, the best place to ask a chick for her number would be away from people?
 
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People around you dont care if you're asking for a girls number....do it in class or out doesnt matter JUST DO IT! or else you'll regret it later.
 
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BeLoSH

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dont care about what anyone else thinks. you wont move forward in life if you do.

never forget these fine words that i read from this site:

"The feeling of not approaching is far worse than geting rejected"

Go4it man. Good luck.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she's letting you know she wants you, just do it.....and no don't ask for her email address...thats what study buddies do
 
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