"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alright, plans are being arranged and I am likely going out to the bars tomorrow with my friend, his sister, and her friends. I don't think he knows I'm into his sister or not, but it is a possibility. He's actually pretty excited about this set-up as well, although I'm not sure exactly what his motivations are. He told me that his sister thinks he might like one of her friends so maybe he wants to meet her and find out? Or, would a guy possibly want to hook his sister up with me...err, probably not, right?

How do you guys think I should play this? I'm not even 100% sure I am interested in the sister so I need to keep the option open of going after one of her friends too. I am pretty confident that I will have at least one of these girls interested in me by the end of the night (basically because my friend is AFC and I know I can make myself look like a pimp by my actions).

How do I let the sister know I am interested, though? Obviously, I can't bust a move on her. I have to be subtle and I can't allow my friend to know what's going on. I'll let him know afterwards if I plan to date his sister, but I don't want any prior interference.

Some factors here: me and my friend are 22, she and her friends are around 25. He's a really nice guy, AFC, but a loyal friend. She's also very nice, fun, and hot.

What do you guys think I should do tomorrow night? I'll let you know how it goes. I hope something goes down. Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You got 900 message posts under your belt and you don't know what to do? Wtf are you hitting on your friends sister. go read the dj bible 10x and come back.
 

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Originally posted by One on One
Thanks for the helpful advice, you ****ing losers.
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I'd figure out first:
-How much you like your friend
-How cool he is with you seeing (f**king) his sister. Some guys don't meddle in their sisters' love lives, but some play that "protector" role and get REAL p*ssed.

If you still feel comfortable, mack her just like any other girl. Don't imply special circumstances where none exist. She's still a woman.
 
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