Chance at a virgin...

[AmazingTricks]

Here goes. There is this girl up at school (HB 7.25, virgin) that wants my balls hard. I came over to her place once and there was a little thing going on there (she's a sorority girl). As soon as I come in, she sits on my lap. A few minutes later we leave the party and go into another room to make out. Later in the day other dudes are trying to get with her and she's showing interest, but eventually brushes all of them off while I keep my cool. In hindsight, I think this is what got me in this situation, but I will continue on this later. So everyone leaves and we get down to business in her bed and I get a little bit further. Then, out of nowhere, she tries to pump the brakes citing that we're moving too fast (again, this is the first time I've ever hung out with her). This AFC keeps running around trying to break up the fun, so I had to close the door and get back to her. We're moving slowly and it's kind of late...the AFC comes back and opens the door to find his target taken by me. Leaves. Then I'm like, damn...this is too much work and I'm out. Fast-forward a couple of months and this girl is clinging on to me hard--I keep hearing about it from a mutual friend. She leaves me IMs (one explicit one that I got as I brought a girl to my room...to which situation I miraculously got myself out of by telling the other girl 'that ***** is crazy,' still got laid that night too).
Anywho, I graduated, but I came back up to school to visit last weekend. I end up at the bar with some friends and said virgin girl is there. Earlier in the night, I was at a party at her sorority and got madd benefits from her. Got my name at the top of the beer pong list (thank you) and cut in line for beer (thank you again). We're all playing cards and after a while she says to me "why are you being so awkward to me?" To which I reply, "I don't know what you're talking about." Then, our mutual friend (who is a girl) leans and says "that means she wants your ****." Well, she didn't, and hasn't gotten it because I wasn't really feeling her. And, because after the night I hooked up with her, I found out she still had her v-card. However, it has recently hit me that hey, I'd like to take her v-card. So, how do I go about this? Should I be blunt, like, "I'm not going to talk to you unless I can **** you" (which is blatantly a bad idea because what girl would want to lose her virginity to an ******* like that), or should I be smooth and show more interest than before? Or perhaps I should do something that I haven't thought of yet? Is there a virgin-getting method? Ideas?

 

[AmazingTricks]

Nobody? It's a tough case to crack.

 

[BoredDude]

I usually tie a dollar to a string and slowly pull it towards myself to attract virgin sorrority girls, works everytime.

 

[AmazingTricks]

I know, I couldn't believe it either. A virgin sorority girl. The thing is, I do now due to a credible source. At any rate...

 

[BoredDude]

I guess she just has to feel ready, this may take awhile or it may not. Who knows, but keep trying maybe you can try other things like oral on her until she gets the courage to go all the way.

 

[AmazingTricks]

Broheem, who wants to say they got oral from a virgin? I'm sure she's not a throat-virgin. I need a plan of attack for a two night visit to college, from which, I can possibly get a v-card.

 

[MacAvoy]

Just date her and go from there. Treat her like any other women you've dated, just be prepare for more LMR than usual.

The one thing I would find out somehow (from her friend if possible) is if she's a virgin because of her religious beliefs, cuz if she's hard core religious your probably going to end up with blue balls instead of her vcard.

 

[AmazingTricks]

Dating isn't an option tho as 1) I don't want to date her and 2) I'm only visiting.

 

[MacAvoy]

Same thing, don't get lost in terminology. Set up a date with her for when you are there. Don't overanalyze was my point or treat her differently by putting her up on a pedastool just because she has a vcard, she isn't different from other women, just do your thing.

 

[AmazingTricks]

But then I'm showing her attention, which is something I haven't done, and it's worked so well. You're saying, completely do a 180 and actually set up a date? I know obviously I'm going to have to give her attention, but is a date the best way?

 

[tsmith2334]

i doubt a virgin will have sex with you after one date. even if the date goes amazingly well, the most you'll probably do is have fun with the fingers.

virgins just don't give it up that easily

 

[MacAvoy]

You really expect to lay a women by ignoring her forever? I wish some of the guys who are trying to get their ex back via no contact who get squimash after 2 weeks had your fortitude.

 

[AmazingTricks]

I understand--it's not easy. I'm trying to see what the best way to go about it is. I think I'm going to straight up tell her I want to **** her, in so many words (i.e. I forgot my condoms at home, do you have any?). If she's not down, at least I know I don't have to put in effort, or try to get her to without saying I want to **** and then having to listen to her tell me she's a virgin when we're already fooling around. At least if I'm up front, I can disarm the virgin bomb (or not) before she tries to detonate.

 

[MacAvoy]

(i.e. I forgot my condoms at home, do you have any?).

Don't go this route, how many virgins do you know walk around with condoms? Its generally accepted as the men's responsibility. If you want to use the aforementioned method go ahead, just don't use the condom thing.

 

[young_gun]

Don't tell her you forgot your condoms or something like that. Just keep progressing things and if it happens, it happens. If she says no, she says no.

 

[Quiksilver]

A virgin? whyyyyy.... is it the novelty value that appeals to you?

Or is it the bloody sheets and **** that you're into? Or mabye its that she'll be less animated than a blow up doll? How about she'll cling to you like that booger you just picked? Either way, virgins make for bad sexual experiences...

 

[MacAvoy]

A virgin? whyyyyy.... is it the novelty value that appeals to you?

Or is it the bloody sheets and **** that you're into? Or mabye its that she'll be less animated than a blow up doll? How about she'll cling to you like that booger you just picked? Either way, virgins make for bad sexual experiences...

I agree but sometimes novelty is pretty powerful. I've never had one and you'd be suprised how far I'd go to land one.

 

[AmazingTricks]

It is the novelty of being able to see you got a virgin and, more importantly, going where nobody has before. Sure makes you feel special. And hey, they're not my sheets.

 

[AmazingTricks]

Also, MacAvoy, the thing is...I'm trying to play like I don't know she's a virgin. So if I asked her condoms, that's why. If she says I'm a virgin, then I can run the let's take care of that prob game on her. If she says yes, she does, then I'm in! At any rate, I can't come up with anything better right now.

 

[tagline]

What you should do

...is lay it on real thick about how doesn't she want her first time to be special but at the same time it should be someone who will give her the freedom to explore her life. Every girl wants to be special so you've got to play up that angle that you can make it special for her. She will then tell you her fantasy of how it should be--she will tell you exactly how you can bag her.

At the same time, you don't want to be a scum and lie to her but you have to account for the fact that you're just visiting and can't/don't want to date her. That's why you play to freedom line...ie giving her her space etc. Slooow play this, though, because you want to listen to what she has to say. If she eats this up then she just wants to screw and run--you're golden. But, it sounds like she thinks she's in love with you the way she is obsessing on you.

If that's the case then in order to bag her you've gotta go along with it. Of course it's not realistic because you're just visiting but you can let that play out over time so that you're not screwing her over. All the same, it sounds to me like you have some issues about taking her virginity so I would watch yourself closely.