"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Challenges and Exercises

MrP

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In this thread, feel free to post any sort of exercise you have come across or used. Also feel free to create a challenge, such as; "Get 3 numbers in 30 mins" or something like that.

I won't be able to do most of these for 2 weeks, but after that I can.

Anyone who wants to do these, I encourage you to do so. Post your results.

I will be posting my results in the "Becoming a player. Mr. P's Journey" thread.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NorwegianDJ

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Sounds a bit outcome dependent, will probably end up sabotaging yourself.

Just stick with the basics like "do 10 approaches in 1 week" or something similar that doesn't rely on the outcome to be a success.
That's true, but it wont always stop us from gaining results. Even if you need an outcome, you can still be succesfull. It's all in the mindset.

I like the ones that doesn't focus on an outcome, like "Do 10 approaches in a day". Also "Get 10 rejections" is great, because it removes the desired outcome and you win no matter what the outcome is.

We could also post games here, like games you can do with chicks. What I'm posting now is mostly not fieldtested by me.

Spinhug, transition to thumb-war, slaps. With high energy etc it can lead to an insta-makeout.

I liked Jack Wealthy's version of stone scissors paper; pick paper and wrap it over her stone if she picks that.

We could also make this a bootcamp-like thread, with everyone doing one challenge. Could be good in the vacations/weekends.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
That's true, but it wont always stop us from gaining results. Even if you need an outcome, you can still be succesfull. It's all in the mindset.

I like the ones that doesn't focus on an outcome, like "Do 10 approaches in a day". Also "Get 10 rejections" is great, because it removes the desired outcome and you win no matter what the outcome is.

We could also post games here, like games you can do with chicks. What I'm posting now is mostly not fieldtested by me.

Spinhug, transition to thumb-war, slaps. With high energy etc it can lead to an insta-makeout.

I liked Jack Wealthy's version of stone scissors paper; pick paper and wrap it over her stone if she picks that.

We could also make this a bootcamp-like thread, with everyone doing one challenge. Could be good in the vacations/weekends.
Another good game/practive is to smile at little kids. If you do it with a girl, they think you're cool and if you do it on your own then you learn to just not care. Or that nobody cares, if you're depressed.
I LOVE spinhugs and thumbwars, I forgot about thumbwars after the Italians left our school, I think I phased it out for paper scissors rock.
We should start a thread or post with tips for these games though, because they follow vibes so heavily that if you mess up you're screwed, even though they are so easy to get right. I guess they need personality and experience.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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