Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Challenges and Exercises

MrP

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In this thread, feel free to post any sort of exercise you have come across or used. Also feel free to create a challenge, such as; "Get 3 numbers in 30 mins" or something like that.

I won't be able to do most of these for 2 weeks, but after that I can.

Anyone who wants to do these, I encourage you to do so. Post your results.

I will be posting my results in the "Becoming a player. Mr. P's Journey" thread.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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NorwegianDJ

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DJ_Hero said:
Sounds a bit outcome dependent, will probably end up sabotaging yourself.

Just stick with the basics like "do 10 approaches in 1 week" or something similar that doesn't rely on the outcome to be a success.
That's true, but it wont always stop us from gaining results. Even if you need an outcome, you can still be succesfull. It's all in the mindset.

I like the ones that doesn't focus on an outcome, like "Do 10 approaches in a day". Also "Get 10 rejections" is great, because it removes the desired outcome and you win no matter what the outcome is.

We could also post games here, like games you can do with chicks. What I'm posting now is mostly not fieldtested by me.

Spinhug, transition to thumb-war, slaps. With high energy etc it can lead to an insta-makeout.

I liked Jack Wealthy's version of stone scissors paper; pick paper and wrap it over her stone if she picks that.

We could also make this a bootcamp-like thread, with everyone doing one challenge. Could be good in the vacations/weekends.
 

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NorwegianDJ said:
That's true, but it wont always stop us from gaining results. Even if you need an outcome, you can still be succesfull. It's all in the mindset.

I like the ones that doesn't focus on an outcome, like "Do 10 approaches in a day". Also "Get 10 rejections" is great, because it removes the desired outcome and you win no matter what the outcome is.

We could also post games here, like games you can do with chicks. What I'm posting now is mostly not fieldtested by me.

Spinhug, transition to thumb-war, slaps. With high energy etc it can lead to an insta-makeout.

I liked Jack Wealthy's version of stone scissors paper; pick paper and wrap it over her stone if she picks that.

We could also make this a bootcamp-like thread, with everyone doing one challenge. Could be good in the vacations/weekends.
Another good game/practive is to smile at little kids. If you do it with a girl, they think you're cool and if you do it on your own then you learn to just not care. Or that nobody cares, if you're depressed.
I LOVE spinhugs and thumbwars, I forgot about thumbwars after the Italians left our school, I think I phased it out for paper scissors rock.
We should start a thread or post with tips for these games though, because they follow vibes so heavily that if you mess up you're screwed, even though they are so easy to get right. I guess they need personality and experience.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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