"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chalk it up for Sex Appeal

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The way I think of sex appeal is like a point system. Women add up the points in their minds and tell themselves if they could see themselves with you. Some women add up points differently than others, maybe like points for Wealth being worth more than points for Looks, but less than Personality. If you have enough of something you're sex appeal is gonna go up.

Here's a few things I have listed for Sex Appeal, please feel free to add or argue anything.

Social Status: Chicks dig a guy who has a lot of friends. One thing it shows her is that in case things between you two don't work out, she can always hook up with your best friend, or something. They also want to see you in a position of power, and how well you handle it. This shows them that you can take care of yourself and build something from the people around you.

Looks: Depends on the girl but I think psychology plays a part here. If you think 'fat chicks' go for the guys with big muscles that could mean something like, 'fat chicks' are looking for a guy who can toss there fat ass around in bed. But when it comes to average shaped women I am sure they go for the lean muscle dude over bag-o-bones or porky, IF they have something in common.

Personality: Don't walk on eggshells, Don't be an angry S.O.B., and Don't fear the reaper. Do be confident you will live a fulfilling and happy life, Do be humorous at the right time, and Do be in tune with her.

Wealth: Be willing to share it. Don't hand out freebies like lollipops. A woman watches a mans wallet more than anything else. Have a good looking wallet.

Smarts: Are you witty? Can you tell her why thunderstorms happen? Can you play scrabble well?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Seems pretty spot on, but as you said, it MUST be a combination of these. Surprisingly, i'd say wealth being the last, but of course it's a factor.
 

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110 views and nobody's got something to say? **** me I thought it was a good idea.
 

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so, to get laid, you need to have most of the above. All these loosers who have a gf in the world have all of the qualities above.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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