"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The way I think of sex appeal is like a point system. Women add up the points in their minds and tell themselves if they could see themselves with you. Some women add up points differently than others, maybe like points for Wealth being worth more than points for Looks, but less than Personality. If you have enough of something you're sex appeal is gonna go up.

Here's a few things I have listed for Sex Appeal, please feel free to add or argue anything.

Social Status: Chicks dig a guy who has a lot of friends. One thing it shows her is that in case things between you two don't work out, she can always hook up with your best friend, or something. They also want to see you in a position of power, and how well you handle it. This shows them that you can take care of yourself and build something from the people around you.

Looks: Depends on the girl but I think psychology plays a part here. If you think 'fat chicks' go for the guys with big muscles that could mean something like, 'fat chicks' are looking for a guy who can toss there fat ass around in bed. But when it comes to average shaped women I am sure they go for the lean muscle dude over bag-o-bones or porky, IF they have something in common.

Personality: Don't walk on eggshells, Don't be an angry S.O.B., and Don't fear the reaper. Do be confident you will live a fulfilling and happy life, Do be humorous at the right time, and Do be in tune with her.

Wealth: Be willing to share it. Don't hand out freebies like lollipops. A woman watches a mans wallet more than anything else. Have a good looking wallet.

Smarts: Are you witty? Can you tell her why thunderstorms happen? Can you play scrabble well?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Seems pretty spot on, but as you said, it MUST be a combination of these. Surprisingly, i'd say wealth being the last, but of course it's a factor.
 

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110 views and nobody's got something to say? **** me I thought it was a good idea.
 

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so, to get laid, you need to have most of the above. All these loosers who have a gf in the world have all of the qualities above.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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