"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Chalk it up for Sex Appeal

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The way I think of sex appeal is like a point system. Women add up the points in their minds and tell themselves if they could see themselves with you. Some women add up points differently than others, maybe like points for Wealth being worth more than points for Looks, but less than Personality. If you have enough of something you're sex appeal is gonna go up.

Here's a few things I have listed for Sex Appeal, please feel free to add or argue anything.

Social Status: Chicks dig a guy who has a lot of friends. One thing it shows her is that in case things between you two don't work out, she can always hook up with your best friend, or something. They also want to see you in a position of power, and how well you handle it. This shows them that you can take care of yourself and build something from the people around you.

Looks: Depends on the girl but I think psychology plays a part here. If you think 'fat chicks' go for the guys with big muscles that could mean something like, 'fat chicks' are looking for a guy who can toss there fat ass around in bed. But when it comes to average shaped women I am sure they go for the lean muscle dude over bag-o-bones or porky, IF they have something in common.

Personality: Don't walk on eggshells, Don't be an angry S.O.B., and Don't fear the reaper. Do be confident you will live a fulfilling and happy life, Do be humorous at the right time, and Do be in tune with her.

Wealth: Be willing to share it. Don't hand out freebies like lollipops. A woman watches a mans wallet more than anything else. Have a good looking wallet.

Smarts: Are you witty? Can you tell her why thunderstorms happen? Can you play scrabble well?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Seems pretty spot on, but as you said, it MUST be a combination of these. Surprisingly, i'd say wealth being the last, but of course it's a factor.
 
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110 views and nobody's got something to say? **** me I thought it was a good idea.
 
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so, to get laid, you need to have most of the above. All these loosers who have a gf in the world have all of the qualities above.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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