"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Certain questions chicks ask, an observation

Everlast2k

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ok so in the future if a girl is to ask what I like to do for fun I should say something like "****ing women" or if she asks if I have a job I should say "professional cherry popper"..haha maybe not those necessarily but I get the idea. the thing is though i have been doin that but i give in later because the girl goes 'no really, what is it you do" blah blah and she doesn't let go of it...but i will work on leading, this is good stuf.

but i just have one q, so if the chicks ask these questions things are good? if so, i guess i will just have to work on my delivery and what not
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Snow Plowman

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Everlast2k said:
ok so in the future if a girl is to ask what I like to do for fun I should say something like "****ing women" or if she asks if I have a job I should say "professional cherry popper"..haha maybe not those necessarily but I get the idea. the thing is though i have been doin that but i give in later because the girl goes 'no really, what is it you do" blah blah and she doesn't let go of it...but i will work on leading, this is good stuf.

but i just have one q, so if the chicks ask these questions things are good? if so, i guess i will just have to work on my delivery and what not
Well yes you have to tell them the truth sooner or later because they will be leave. The whole thing is you can't be overgaming chicks. If your getting these questions its time to stop playing around and start vibing and getting to know her, meanwhile escalating. I usually go for the kiss when they start asking me questions like that, just to see where I'm at.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Everlast2k said:
So I thought, but apparently it does!!!! :cuss:
It was just smalltalk, basically worthless after 30 seconds.
 
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