"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Certain questions chicks ask, an observation

Everlast2k

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ok so in the future if a girl is to ask what I like to do for fun I should say something like "****ing women" or if she asks if I have a job I should say "professional cherry popper"..haha maybe not those necessarily but I get the idea. the thing is though i have been doin that but i give in later because the girl goes 'no really, what is it you do" blah blah and she doesn't let go of it...but i will work on leading, this is good stuf.

but i just have one q, so if the chicks ask these questions things are good? if so, i guess i will just have to work on my delivery and what not
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Snow Plowman

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Everlast2k said:
ok so in the future if a girl is to ask what I like to do for fun I should say something like "****ing women" or if she asks if I have a job I should say "professional cherry popper"..haha maybe not those necessarily but I get the idea. the thing is though i have been doin that but i give in later because the girl goes 'no really, what is it you do" blah blah and she doesn't let go of it...but i will work on leading, this is good stuf.

but i just have one q, so if the chicks ask these questions things are good? if so, i guess i will just have to work on my delivery and what not
Well yes you have to tell them the truth sooner or later because they will be leave. The whole thing is you can't be overgaming chicks. If your getting these questions its time to stop playing around and start vibing and getting to know her, meanwhile escalating. I usually go for the kiss when they start asking me questions like that, just to see where I'm at.
 

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Everlast2k said:
So I thought, but apparently it does!!!! :cuss:
It was just smalltalk, basically worthless after 30 seconds.
 
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