How valid is this statement? And what constitues "training to failure"?Training to failure often is not recommended. It is believed to have a negative effect on an individual’s CNS, or central nervous system.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How valid is this statement? And what constitues "training to failure"?Training to failure often is not recommended. It is believed to have a negative effect on an individual’s CNS, or central nervous system.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
By negative effect, they mean it's taxing on the CNS. This isn't a bad thing you just have to understand more about periodization to compensate for this. It does take the CNS atleast 48 hours to recover from a high intensity workout.Training to failure often is not recommended. It is believed to have a negative effect on an individual’s CNS, or central nervous system.
It was an interesting question. I can distinguish two situation "to failure".Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
By negative effect, they mean it's taxing on the CNS.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That doesn't make sense.Originally posted by Shiftkey
The idea is to go to failure, not to force past failure.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
drop sets are useless.Originally posted by Warboss Alex
CNS be damned, your workset starts when you think you've failed.
And hell, I don't think anyone who rest-pauses or dropsets (both of which include training beyond failure) isn't growing ..
Try being constructive. Constructive criticism is always welcome, pointless criticism is... well, pointless.Originally posted by RaWBLooD
drop sets are useless.
No. CNS and soreness aren't the same thing - and the whole CNS question is overanalysing IMO, if you feel run down and half-dead all the time then you're being taxed too much and need a break, otherwise just don't worry.Originally posted by bcherb2
Still havent read anything credable as to what "CNS taxing" is other than a vague term. Im pretty sure in essence you all are just trying to say "dont lift if you're sore" in so many words? maybe not...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.