"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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h2o

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I got a new phone recently, and I'm wondering, how the heck do you transfer your pictures/video/sound, etc from your phone to your computer?

I don't want to pay an extra fee to send the file over the Internet with my phone and email it to myself...unless that's the only way?

Or is there a cord you have to buy? I never thought it would be complicated...I thought you just upload it with usb.

I have a Sony Ericsson...but it doesn't have a usb port...even the headphone jack is really weird looking.

thanks
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by h2o
I got a new phone recently, and I'm wondering, how the heck do you transfer your pictures/video/sound, etc from your phone to your computer?

I don't want to pay an extra fee to send the file over the Internet with my phone and email it to myself...unless that's the only way?

Or is there a cord you have to buy? I never thought it would be complicated...I thought you just upload it with usb.

I have a Sony Ericsson...but it doesn't have a usb port...even the headphone jack is really weird looking.

thanks
There is probably a cable which you need to buy to connect it. It will probably be fairly expensive. You're Australian right? think $60+. That was the prices I was getting when looking for a cable like that for my Nokia.

BUT being a new phone, I assume you have bluetooth on it?

You can buy a bluetooth connecter for your computer (if it hasn't got one) which plugs into your USB ports.
Its small, and clean, wireless. And slightly cheaper. But it is slower. I chose bluetooth because I MAY be able to connect more things to my computer with it - long term, then I could with the cable.
 

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Who's your provider, there are lots of ways to transfer files for free depending on who you have.
 

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well, I don't have bluetooth. but my provider is cingular. it would be really nice if it is free.

$60 for a cord is damn expensive, the phone itself was $30 with rebates and plan discounts.
 

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What sort of phone do you have? If you don't have bluetooth, you're probably going to have to either go through infrared or a data cable. While the cord will retail at the shop for $60, you can pick up a non-OEM one for under $10 on eBay. I've gone through the same problems numerous times so I can understand your frusteration (try having a half-dozen naked pics of chicks on your phone and having bluetooth not want to work, and no data cable handy)...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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